Too many people get used to struggles and we even start to see that as a way of life. Struggling is not totally avoidable but then one must have the right perspective of how life and struggles are connected. To achieve anything great, you definitely have to do some reasonable amount of struggling. However, life could be beautiful even regardless of the struggles.
#1: Struggling is not the identity. You must learn to live while you struggle, such that anyone who sees you can separate the struggle from your life.
A Journey To True Self 